Is it a red flag if they have no friends?
Short answer
It depends why
Having few friends isn't a red flag on its own: people move cities, are introverts, or are going through a hard time. It's worth noticing if every friendship ended badly and it's always the other person's fault, or if they want you all to themselves.
It depends on
- Why they have few friends
- How they talk about old friends
- Whether they encourage you to see yours
What you could say
- Tell me about your best friend growing up?
- Who do you call when something good happens?
- I'd love you to meet my friends sometime!
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Is it a red flag if they have no friends?
It depends why. Having few friends isn't a red flag on its own: people move cities, are introverts, or are going through a hard time. It's worth noticing if every friendship ended badly and it's always the other person's fault, or if they want you all to themselves.
Is having no friends a red flag in a man or woman?
Not by itself. Look at how they treat people, and whether they respect your friendships.
When is it a real warning sign?
When they're jealous of your friends or try to keep you away from them.
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