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Is it a red flag if they're still on dating apps?

Short answer

Depends on what you agreed

In the first weeks, lots of people still use the apps: it's not a red flag unless you've agreed to be exclusive. If you have, or it's been months, it's fair to ask. How they answer (honest or defensive) tells you a lot.

It depends on

  • Whether you've talked about being exclusive
  • How long you've been dating
  • Whether they're honest when you ask

What you could say

  • I've deleted my apps. How do you feel about that?
  • Are we seeing other people? I'd like to know where we stand.
  • I'd like us to be exclusive. What do you think?

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Is it a red flag if they're still on dating apps?

Depends on what you agreed. In the first weeks, lots of people still use the apps: it's not a red flag unless you've agreed to be exclusive. If you have, or it's been months, it's fair to ask. How they answer (honest or defensive) tells you a lot.

When should you delete dating apps?

When you both agree to be exclusive. Talk about it rather than guessing.

Is it ok to check if they're still active?

It's better to ask directly than to watch their profile.

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