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Is it a red flag if they're rude to waiters?

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Red flag

How someone treats people who can't do anything for them says a lot. Rudeness to waiters, drivers or staff often shows how they'll treat you once the early charm fades. Once on a bad day can happen; as a habit, it's a red flag.

It depends on

  • Whether it was a one-off on a bad day
  • Whether they apologised
  • How they treat others in general

What you could say

  • That felt a bit harsh. Everything ok?
  • I really care about how people treat staff.
  • (Watch the next date. It tells you a lot.)

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Is it a red flag if they're rude to waiters?

Red flag. How someone treats people who can't do anything for them says a lot. Rudeness to waiters, drivers or staff often shows how they'll treat you once the early charm fades. Once on a bad day can happen; as a habit, it's a red flag.

Why does this matter so much?

Because it shows their character when there's nothing to gain from being nice.

Should I say something?

You can, gently. How they react to your comment is also information.

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