Should I text after a first date?

Short answer

Yes, within 24 hours

If you enjoyed it, send a short, warm text the same evening or the next morning. Waiting days to look cool doesn't work: it just looks less interested. Mention one thing you liked, and suggest meeting again if you want to.

Why this happens

After a first date, both people are often unsure how the other felt. A quick text removes the guessing, and it's rarely seen as too keen.

It depends on

Whether you'd like a second date
Who said goodbye how: a hug and “let's do this again” is a good sign
Whether they already texted you (then just reply)

What you could send

I had a really nice time tonight, thanks! Especially [something you talked about] 😄
That was fun. Up for round two next week?
Home safe? I enjoyed tonight, let's do it again soon.

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