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No reply for 2 days: should I text again?

Short answer

One light follow-up

Two days without a reply is long enough for one gentle follow-up. Keep it short and pressure-free, with no “did you get my message?”. If they still don't reply after that, stop: they know how to reach you.

Why this happens

Two days is long enough to notice but short enough to still be a busy stretch. One gentle message lets you know without pushing.

It depends on

  • Whether you've met in person or only chatted
  • Whether they usually reply fast
  • What your last message was

What you could send

  • Hey, hope your week's going well! Still up for that coffee?
  • Found the place I told you about, it looks great 👀
  • No worries if things got busy, just saying hi 👋

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No reply for 2 days: should I text again?

One light follow-up. Two days without a reply is long enough for one gentle follow-up. Keep it short and pressure-free, with no “did you get my message?”. If they still don't reply after that, stop: they know how to reach you.

Is two days a long time not to reply?

For new dating, a bit. People get busy, but if they're interested they usually find a minute within a day.

Should I call instead?

Not usually. A call after no reply can feel like pressure. One text is enough.

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