Should I text them every day?
Short answer
If you both enjoy it
Texting every day is fine if it feels easy for both of you. Early on, follow their rhythm: if they reply warmly and text back, keep going. If you notice you're always the one starting, slow down and give them room.
Why this happens
Daily texting builds closeness when both people want it. When only one does, it quickly starts to feel like chasing.
It depends on
- Whether they text you every day too
- Whether the conversations feel easy
- How often you see each other
What you could send
- How was your day?
- Tell me one good thing about today 😄
- Thinking of you. Talk later?
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Questions
Should I text them every day?
If you both enjoy it. Texting every day is fine if it feels easy for both of you. Early on, follow their rhythm: if they reply warmly and text back, keep going. If you notice you're always the one starting, slow down and give them room.
Is texting every day too much at the start?
Not if it's mutual. If only you are starting the chats, text less.
What if we run out of things to say?
That's a sign to meet up more and text less.
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