Should I text while they're on vacation?
Short answer
A little, without pressure
A few light messages while they're away show you're thinking of them. Don't expect quick replies, and don't send lots of messages: they're on holiday. Asking about their trip is the easiest way to keep things warm.
Why this happens
People on holiday are busy and often offline. A few light messages keep the connection without competing with their trip.
It depends on
- How long they're away
- Whether they're sending you photos or updates
- How often you usually talk
What you could send
- How's the trip going? Send a photo of the view 😄
- Enjoy it! Tell me all about it when you're back.
- Drinks when you're back?
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Should I text while they're on vacation?
A little, without pressure. A few light messages while they're away show you're thinking of them. Don't expect quick replies, and don't send lots of messages: they're on holiday. Asking about their trip is the easiest way to keep things warm.
Should I text every day while they're away?
Only if they're texting you every day too. Otherwise, every few days is plenty.
What if they don't reply much?
That's normal on holiday. Judge it by how things are when they're back.
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